As you are increasing your opportunities to be seen, here are some simple exercises to help you create the best impression when you are centre stage:
What's in it for them? Put yourself in the other person's place and think about how your contribution will be of benefit to them. Interest and attention will soar when you are explicit about the benefits your abilities will bring to your customer, employer, or colleague. To help you do this, write down 4 features about yourself and list the corresponding benefits next to them. This is a great exercise to get you focusing on the positive impact of your strengths.
Prove it. When you are being really clear and provide the evidence that clarifies your message, the impression you make is more solid. So, to get you thinking about this list another 4 features and give corresponding examples of evidence that substantiate the quality of your attribute.
Positivity is key. Don't allow those negative thoughts to creep in. Think of yourself as your own positive personal advert. You can transform potential negatives. For example you can see ‘a boring job' as ‘a sign of my readiness to take on new responsibility'. Now write 5 positive things about yourself and back them up with evidence.
Being clear about what you have to offer, where you want to go, and the benefits to others all serve to back up your increased visibility with a really positive impression. These are simple steps to help you achieve your goals. |